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The force of the language: 5 measure are cleared predicament state of mind
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The inner status of a person can talk from its in detect knows. Change talking way, can change inner position. The predicament of heart of a lot of people, a few erroneous belief that are oneself actually are caused.

5 the following measure, help us apply a language to go a state of mind that is in predicament, the active enterprising, action cause that has clarity more mixes instead way. For example, a person says not to do some thing:

① predicament: I do not do X,

② adapts: Till now, I still fail to accomplish X.

③ cause and effect: Because I was not known in the past- - , arrive so till now, still fail to accomplish X.

④ hypothesis: Learn to understand when me- - , I can accomplish X.

⑤ did not come: I should learn- - , I will accomplish X.

Note: The " of cause and effect of the 3rd pace must be certain the thing that oneself can be controlled or acts somewhat.

"I do not do " is to describe fact of a bygone in fact: At that time I do not have this ability " , or I do not think " go doing " . But in the years in future, we always want to withhold " to do get " , or the right that " considers to do " .

The job that produced cannot be changed, however the influence that the past did not come to to me can be changed however, because I do not do this " to should not make a package to " , we take block ahead. 5 measure above, let us drop the load in the past, precipitant.

Case analysis: Predicament " I won't swim. Predicament " I won't swim..

① predicament: I do not do X

Look round the word when " of predicament of the first " : "I won't swim " , can feel addresser is the small circle of people that strands his in a stricture in, and outside swim namely, he however have no alternative, the static state is completely if saying.

Predicament " I won't swim. " it is negative term, although point to this to engrave till I cannot swim, but because do not have time index, the truth that speaking out to resemble is an eternity - kind, in our cerebra, also make such result just about, make we cannot make a breakthrough.

② adapts: Till now, I still fail to accomplish X.

index of time of Hunan of its make a clear distinction: That just did not learn to swim -- " bygone, will not be well worth doing " , additional " won't " turn for " have not learn " , be opposite namely subconscious point out this thing is to be able to learn. (But still be negative term)

③ cause and effect: Because I was not known in the past- - , arrive so till now, still fail to accomplish X.

Because of the past I fail to seek a business come out because of searching: "Find a good teacher " and " arrangement time " .

This 2 o'clock is him eduction time, so oneself can act somewhat now, notice two to one already turned into, and two are negative term.

④ hypothesis: Learn to understand when me- - , I can accomplish X.

Suppose: "Find a good teacher when me " two still be ③ , just be a term of front of negative term instead (two) , conjunction " because " instead " when " .
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