The society makes the lubricant that parents communicates
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Parents quarrels, children has its view oneself, but unfavorable judge dispute, commend actor bad. Parents quarrels to be in in a fit of anger, proper pride is especially strong, grade idea aggrandizement, even of equal husband and wife accepts flatter oneself to have the word of the other side of caustic dignity hard, children junior is to not allow to interrupt more, but the humorous language that tries to be unique sometimes however can defeat sb by a surprise action.

"A day of husband and wife 100 days of favour " , conflict of feeling of husband and wife is temporary mostly, once come down calmly,meet become reconciled. Among this, the children that regards parental feeling as ligament is having the effect that cannot ignore, active mediation is very effective.

Tell from psychological angle, parents quarrels not to want to let others hear, alleged family scandal cannot outside raise, children can capture this a little bit to undertake dissuasion. If say to parents: "Such-and-such came. " for " confidential " , quarrel to be able to stop suddenly, or volume is reduced. If by parental get behind, also can undertake explanatory: "Do not have a law to let you stop really, I am afraid of others jest. " bright defend for oneself, solid for parental consider, won't make parents feel disgusted commonly.

Sometimes although parents stops to quarrel, but in respective heart ill-affected, each other ignore, enter cold war state. At this moment children should want to become again when the reporter already information member, recuperate from which communicate. For example the mother lets you call father to have a meal, you can say to father: "Mom did you to love to eat designedly, look she did not get angry. " father is washing a bowl, you can say to the mother again: "Pa is washing a bowl, the food that you make is really delicious, he eats very spicily. " although parents is met glare you are one, but its are pleasurable, more the pains of children and glad.

Common saying says " the honest and upright official decides household issue hard " . Parents quarrels, children has its view oneself, but unfavorable judge dispute, commend actor bad. Parents quarrels to be in in a fit of anger, proper pride is especially strong, grade idea aggrandizement, even of equal husband and wife accepts flatter oneself to have the word of the other side of caustic dignity hard, children junior is to not allow to interrupt more, but the humorous language that tries to be unique sometimes however can defeat sb by a surprise action. Parents to tear open not unpick and wash the bagatelle of sweat shirt of a wool makes a noise so that cannot leave to hand in, the daughter of the middle school runs on cry among them: "Cheer! Cheer! " parents stopped voice, feel embarrassed ground photograph is inspected laugh, went away.


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